essential self
for conscious women ready to discover + embody their soul’s purpose
create impact and abundance by being who you truly are
freedom
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abundance
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expression
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connection
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authenticity
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ease
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freedom 〰️ abundance 〰️ expression 〰️ connection 〰️ authenticity 〰️ ease 〰️
i’ve been there. somewhere in the space between who you were & who you’re becoming.
You’ve already done some inner work. You’ve journaled, reflected, maybe even worked with a coach, read the books, listened to the podcasts.
But if you’re honest, you still feel like something is missing.
You wonder why embodying your growth feels harder than understanding it.
You’re craving deeper connection — with yourself, with life, with your purpose.
You dream of abundance and freedom, but doubt or fear holds you back.
If this sounds like you, it used to be me, too.
You’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
Once you reconnect with who you truly are, everything shifts.
Confidence becomes natural.
Purpose becomes clear.
Action becomes aligned.
And life becomes something you are excited about again.
Essential Self was born from this transformation—and it's here for yours too.
The very best is yet to come for you.
Essential Self is a return home.
To freedom. To self-trust. To deep alignment. To your divine place and connection in this world.
essential self - the truth of who you are, untouched by fear, doubt, or the need to please. expansive, authentic, whole, abundant, & free.
Maybe you’ve already done some inner work—but you're having trouble embodying it.
You’ve had realizations, breakthroughs, glimpses of truth... But shifting your life into alignment with that truth still feels hard.
Maybe you’re hearing whispers about the impact you're meant to make. Maybe it looks like starting a business to help others through what you've already overcome…
Maybe it’s stepping into your power as a creative, an artist, a coach, or other soul-led work…
Or maybe it's simply becoming the most grounded, loving version of yourself—for your partner, your family, your future.
Whatever form it takes, your purpose isn’t just personal—it’s sacred. It’s about service. It’s about creating something real from who you truly are.
Because fulfillment doesn’t come from “fixing” yourself. It comes from showing up, aligned and whole—and lifting others as you rise.
MAYBE THIS IS YOU...
essential self is your 12 week, safe space to peel back the layers, return to your truth, & step fully into who you truly are. create a life that actually feels like you, a life that is a direct extension of your soul.
through my own transformation, diving deep into these 4 things changed everything for me— love, freedom, connection, and purpose.
this is the foundation of your transformation, too.
MY COACHING METHOD
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reconnecting with your being
(through the essential self 4 pillars)
Freedom — release fear, old patterns, and anything that keeps you small. become free from your biggest roadblocks from living your dream life.
Love — deepen self-love, confidence, and compassion as your foundation for everything. healing relationship with self & others
Connection — remember your divine connection to yourself, nature, and place within this world. you are so worthy and needed, just as you are.
Purpose — discover your gifts and align your life to what brings you the highest joy. we honor our sacred existence through living life this way (our highest possible vibration)
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your path of becoming
once inside, here is a brief description of the pathway we’ll flow through together:
Foundation — reclaim your truth, build confidence, and set a soul-aligned vision. discover your soul’s purpose.
Expression — embody your authentic self, use your voice, and reclaim your power. brand magnetism/social media growth & authenticity, cycle syncing to creat with ease, clarity on your path.
Impact — share your gifts, create abundance, and live your purpose. how to coach/hold space for others, attain clients, creating your offering, every resource you need to set up your brand of impact
What You’ll Receive
Live, intuitive weekly coaching sessions — deep support, clarity, and breakthroughs.
Proven tools & practices that help you know yourself deeply and continue progress long after our time together ends.
Powerful weekly modules — guided lessons to discover your purpose, release fear, embody who you truly are, welcome abundance, take aligned action, and MUCH more.
Customized soul work assignments — simple but powerful practices to integrate growth between sessions.
Direct text support with me — so you feel supported and guided every step of the way.
Bonus business section with everything that you need should you want to also create a brand of abundance & impact (in any form it shall take that we’ll discover together.
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together we will..
discover with your purpose
realize your confidence, power, & tap into your intuition
overcome people pleasing/fear of judgement
learn how to take action in your life (even outside of your comfort zone)
reframe your challenges & thrive in the unknown
find freedom and abundance in your life
create a safe space to hold you accountable to your dreams
release what’s holding you back in life from being who you truly are
explore your own soul led brand of abundance and impact
(bonus business section: grow on social media, how to enroll clients, build your offering/program, etc)
and so much more….
By the end of this program, you’ll…
Feel deeply connected to yourself and your purpose.
Live with more freedom, love, and clarity than ever before.
Have confidence to express yourself unapologetically.
Be taking real, soul-aligned steps toward creating the impact and abundance you desire — no matter which form your soul led work takes.. coaching, healing, art, writing, or simply by living fully in your truth.
You will move forward with clarity, direction, and the tools to keep moving forward as your highest self. (with proven tools I used in my own life, combined with thousands of dollars spent on programs & certifications all to deepen my skills as the guide towards your dream life too.)
“Thank you Shelby genuinely for everything. Allowing me to be safe opening day after day, peeling skins in front of you being raw, sharing with you literally layers of shame I feel lighter, more seen, more heard, more loved. My words trust me aren't enough to express how grateful I am to you.”
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testimonials
“I never got the chance to properly thank you for the amazing work you've done so far with me. I am so lucky I have met you ! Genuinely I never had a mentor (although I prefer to call you sister because you genuinely were and are to me)”
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“I am so beyond grateful for the last session we had and how much it just felt like exactly what my heart and soul were longing for. It felt so soft. Each session is unique in its own way. Each session delivers new insight, new wisdom, and new feedback about the energy I’m embodying.”
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“My inner child wants to thank yours because you literally make my dreams come true of really being who I am and feel safe at the same time which was a deep unmet need of mine that I felt ashamed to even have. my intention was for you to help me start my career but deep down I wanted this, to be met, heard, felt held and so safe.”
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“Which, let me tell you again, makes you a Superhero. Believe me you inspire me so, so much, with your magical aura energy container. you are the most safe container I ever felt (sometimes I have to pinch myself ) and that only shows how a genuine kind loving woman you are .”
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about me
Something always felt like it was missing. I was constantly in deep thought, searching for more. Because, underneath it all, I was so uncertain of who I was or why I was even here. Questioning myself to my very core. Wondering why I always felt different.
On the outside, everything looked fine—I had the degrees, the stable job, the apartment, the relationship. I did what I was "supposed" to do. I reached the pillars of "success" that society tells us we should strive for.
But once I got there and still didn’t feel fulfilled, I thought... so now what?
For a long time, it felt like I was living someone else’s life. Inside, I felt disconnected, restless, and unsure of myself. I kept trying to prove my worth through what I achieved, how I looked, and who I could please. I stayed busy, distracted, and "safe"... but I wasn’t truly happy despite how difficult it was to admit it.
The truth was: I didn’t trust myself. I didn’t know how to listen to my own needs, desires, or voice. I was afraid of what would happen if I started being honest about what I really wanted.
Eventually, the pain of staying disconnected became louder than my fear of change. I began peeling back the layers, doing the inner work, and slowly returning to myself. I stopped chasing validation and started choosing alignment. I stopped waiting for permission and began showing up as the person I knew I was meant to be.
essential self was born from this transformation— and it’s here for yours too.
FAQs
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Like anything in life, you will get out of this program what you put into it (all within a safe space that provides you everything you need for success). While I do offer a 14-day money-back guarantee, the results you get are up to you. I can promise that if you commit to the process with an open mind and heart, you will see results just as I did in my own life using these very same methods. For once, you don’t have to do this alone. & doing something you’ve never done before, ALWAYS yields different results. You are in the right place.
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Yes! You will receive $150 for each friend you send our way. True friends support the people in their lives who also want to make a change :)
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why I created this
I knew I didn’t have all the answers—but I continued to ask the question why?
That questioning comes from 28 years of trying to fit into a system that was never built for me. I did the things I was taught were “right.” I went to college. Got the degrees. Stayed in a career—even when it drained me. I accepted chronic stress, low self-esteem, and disconnection as “normal.”
Every time I searched for answers, the only response I got from the world around me was: fall back in line.
But, I began to see a different reality. One where we stop forcing ourselves into boxes we were never meant to fit in. Where we stop doing things that don’t feel right, just because we’re told that’s what we’re “supposed” to do.
If life feels off for you—I wish you the boldness to question it all. Because that’s where your return begins.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF YOU'RE READY TO:
Come home to yourself—fully and unapologetically
Build a deep, loving connection with your intuition
Step into a life of alignment, purpose, and authenticity
Let go of fear and finally trust the wisdom within you
Be supported by someone who’s walked this path and transformed in ways I never thought possible for myself
You already have the answers you seek—my role is to help you hear them clearly, trust them fully, and act on them with love.
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It's time to let go of who you think you should be.
It's time to stop doing the things you think you should do.
Reconnect with your truth. Receive answers on why things seem "off" for you or disconnected from what you truly want. Discover who you truly are. Reclaim your power and purpose in this life. We are not here to make ourselves small.
Because... maybe you were never lost. You were simply living in survival mode, performing in roles you’ve long outgrown, following stories that were never really yours.
Essential Self is your invitation to return—deeply and honestly—to who you truly are. To reclaim your wholeness. To live the truth of your purpose.
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questions, comments, share what is on your heart.
If you’re still reading this, it’s not a coincidence.I see you. I feel you. I was you.
And if I could create this kind of transformation in my life—you absolutely can too. (don’t wait as long as old Shelby did)